Protect Your Heart
Your kindness is not a weakness. Recognise love bombing and emotional pressure so affection doesn't push you past your own boundaries.
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For anyone who meets people online
The question isn't whether romance scams exist. It's whether you'd spot one before it reached you.
You deserve love without putting your savings, identity or peace of mind on the line. A convincing message can turn into a request for money, documents or account access. This practical workbook helps you pause, verify and set boundaries before trust becomes a costly decision.
- Instant PDF download
- 31 chapters + worksheets
- UK & US resources
What's really at stake
More than money. Your life, your name, your peace of mind.
The savings you built. The identity that belongs to you. The confidence to trust again. You don't need to stop meeting people. You need clear boundaries before someone asks for something you can't easily take back.
Protect Your Money
An urgent request or convincing investment story can put thousands of pounds or dollars at risk. Use the pause-and-check tools before savings you've worked for leave your account.
Protect Your Identity
It isn't only money. Stolen ID documents, personal details or security codes can be used to impersonate you, access accounts or attempt credit fraud. Know what to keep private.
Protect Your Loved Ones
You shouldn't have to carry the worry alone. Find the words to talk without blame, check the facts together and support someone you love before they feel pressured to act.
Interactive example
Would You Spot the Warning Signs?
This is an invented conversation, written to show the patterns the workbook teaches you to notice.
J
JamesOnline
That's lovely. Shall we finally meet for coffee this weekend?
How it works
Tap any highlighted message.
Each one shows a common pattern explained in the workbook.
- Love bombing
- Avoiding real-life meetings
- Sudden emergency
- Request for money
- Pressure to keep secrets
Inside the workbook
Turn “something feels wrong” into a clear next step.
When you care about someone, it can be hard to question their story. These chapters, checklists and worksheets give you a way to separate affection from evidence, pause before sending money and bring someone you trust into the conversation. No guide can guarantee safety, but you can make more informed decisions.
- 01Romance Risk Score
- 0210-Question Reality Check
- 03Before-I-Send-Money Protocol
- 04Scam Warning Signs Checklist
- 05Family Support Guidance
- 06Printable Worksheets
Try it free
Not sure yet? Take the free 2-minute check.
Answer 10 simple questions for a private, judgement-free reflection on your situation before you decide anything.
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Is someone you've met online showing the warning signs?
It takes about two minutes, and there's no judgement here. These scams are designed to work on kind, careful people.
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An educational reflection tool, not a scientifically validated scam-detection system. Your answers stay on this device.
For families
Protecting Someone You Love Starts With a Conversation.
Anyone can be targeted, including capable, intelligent adults. The workbook includes guidance on recognising manipulation and on raising concerns calmly and respectfully, so the person you love feels supported rather than judged.
- Conversation scripts that avoid blame
- How to become someone's trusted person
- What to do if money has already been sent
Why this matters
Romance fraud is common, costly and under-reported.
$1.16bn
reported lost to romance scams by US consumers in just the first nine months of 2025
Source: US Federal Trade Commission, Consumer Sentinel Network, 2026£102m
reported lost to romance fraud in the UK in the latest annual figures
Source: Action Fraud (City of London Police), 2025$929m
in confidence/romance fraud losses reported to the FBI in 2025, up 38% in a year
Source: FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center, 2025 Internet Crime ReportReported figures only. Many victims never report, so real losses are likely higher.
Instant digital delivery
The Complete Romance Scam Protection Workbook
Not just information to read, but practical tools for the moment someone asks you to send money, share private details or keep a secret. Give yourself space to think before you act.
- 31 chapters across five practical parts
- 10-Question Reality Check
- Romance Risk Score
- Before-I-Send-Money Protocol & Card
- 15 Red Flag Checklist & Quick-Reference Card
- Profile Verification Worksheet & Relationship Timeline
- Family conversation guidance & scripts
- 30-Day Safer Dating Challenge
- UK & US reporting resources
Revised Edition 2.0 · PDF
£35.99One-time payment · no subscription
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Real readers
What changed for people who read it.
Nearly sent £1,800 to a “stranded” matchEnded it the same night
Hiding a new relationship from familyTalked it through, together
Ready to join her “trading platform”Kept every pound
“I was three weeks in with someone who felt like my other half. The 10-Question Reality Check made me stop and actually look at his story, and it fell apart in an evening. I closed the account that night.”
BeforeEmotionally invested, brushing off doubtsAfterSaw the pattern clearly and walked away
“I honestly thought scams only happened to other people. The Risk Score came back with four warning signs about someone I was ready to send money to. That pause saved me thousands.”
BeforeAbout to “invest” in her platformAfterKept every pound and reported the profile
“The Before-I-Send-Money card is on my fridge. When the emergency story came, I read it instead of paying. He vanished within the hour, and I still had my savings.”
BeforeTwo days from sending £1,800AfterMoney safe, scammer gone
“I'd hidden the whole relationship from my daughter for months. The family scripts gave me the words. We went through the checklist together. She wasn't angry, she was relieved.”
BeforeSecret relationship, constant worryAfterAn ally instead of a judgement
“I'd already sent money before I found this. The reporting chapter told me exactly who to call, and in what order. My bank flagged the transfer in time to stop the second payment.”
BeforeMoney gone, too ashamed to tell anyoneAfterBank alerted, second payment stopped
“I'm in Florida and didn't have a clue where to even report this. Now I know exactly where it goes, and I date with my eyes open instead of being scared of everyone.”
BeforeScared of ever trusting anyone onlineAfterConfident, with a process that works
Read the workbook and something changed for you? Reply to your purchase email. We'd love to hear your story.
Official help
Reporting routes in the UK and USA.
If money has already been sent, contact your bank or payment provider first, using contact details you've found yourself.
United Kingdom
- Action Fraud · England, Wales & Northern Ireland · 0300 123 2040
- Police Scotland · call 101 (999 in an emergency)
- Call 159 to reach your bank's fraud team safely
United States
- ReportFraud.ftc.gov · Federal Trade Commission
- IC3.gov · FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center
- IdentityTheft.gov · if personal details were shared
Before you decide
Isn't this information free online?
Pieces of it are. What you're paying for is having it gathered, ordered and ready to use, with tools, worksheets and scripts you can act on straight away.
Will this make me paranoid?
The opposite. A simple process lets you relax and enjoy meeting people while knowing you'll notice if something is wrong.
Can I buy this for someone else?
Yes. It is written without blame and includes guidance on raising concerns with care.
I'm in the US. Can I buy it?
Yes. The price is £35.99, charged in GBP (≈ US$48). This is an estimate, not a fixed dollar price; your card provider sets the exchange rate and any fees. The workbook includes US reporting resources.
How do I get it?
Straight after payment you'll see a download button, and a copy of the link is emailed to you. Check your inbox, promotions and junk folders.
Can I get a refund?
Because this is an instant digital download, all sales are final once the file has been delivered. If you have a problem with your download, email info@aryecom.co.uk and we'll help.
Stay open to love. Keep hold of what matters.
Your savings, your identity and your peace of mind deserve care. Give yourself a practical way to pause, ask questions and check the facts without letting pressure make the decision for you.